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Do you and your boy discuss marriage on any level and what are your feelings on it?
Yes. We figured out a long time ago that we would get married some daybut that day may be a while off. We want to wait until are financially secure, rather than partially dependent on our families. In the meantime, marriage is my fantasy. I view it as security and safety, no doubt idealized but still a lovely thought. I also look forward to my wedding, which I intend to be largely unconventionaland where it breaks convention, I consider it beautiful and wonderful, so of course I look forward to it. In the meantime, knowing we both feel happy and secure enough that we plan to get married is (almost) enough for me. There's security and contentment in that knowledge.
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Do you and your boy discuss marriage on any level and what are your feelings on it?
Yes. We figured out a long time ago that we would get married some daybut that day may be a while off. We want to wait until are financially secure, rather than partially dependent on our families. In the meantime, marriage is my fantasy. I view it as security and safety, no doubt idealized but still a lovely thought. I also look forward to my wedding, which I intend to be largely unconventionaland where it breaks convention, I consider it beautiful and wonderful, so of course I look forward to it. In the meantime, knowing we both feel happy and secure enough that we plan to get married is (almost) enough for me. There's security and contentment in that knowledge.
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